When I was growing up I heard adults complain about growing older. The constant fight against aging is very real in our society but I have found a huge benefit. The ability to take life in stride, be humorous in regard to hardship and to disregard living by other's opinions.
A difficult situtation is simply that. I look at it and consider that it is simply "what is" at the time and from there, make the necessary choice or choices to deal with it. There will be emotions involved depending on the situation but these are not to rule our decisions. Feel the emotion and set it aside. The decision made without emotion and based on the facts will be the best decision.
For those who are dependent on other's opinions, it's time to get a thicker skin. NEVER EVER will people agree. Living life based on "will so and so still like me if..........." or "my friends think I should.................." is a life based on handing your own free will away. This creates a perfect setting for those who would abuse you, take advantage. Your life is not your own, not fully.
2 comments:
Excellent thoughts, Joan! When we live for the opinions of others, not only are we not free, but we also surrender pieces of our own soul . Too high a price for acceptance.
Thanks Edin. I find it sad when I observe this in others. It reminds me of a puppy that wants only to please but cannot choose it's own direction. Independence of thought is so vital.
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