"Meg said...
Dear Joan:Why, (do you think), some people thrive on changes, while at the same time, others are paralyzed by changes?"
Hi Meg,
I cannot read other's minds but BUT I have observed and talked tomany people and here is a list of some reasons why people seem to be paralyzed by change: Fear of the unknown, complacency, laziness, habit. Please note that NOT ONE of these reasons are positive at all. The beauty of life is that we have choices. Each time we choose to do nothing, it is still a choice.
Others thrive on changes for many reasons as well. For me, it is a sense of accomplishment, meeting a challenge head-on and doing JUST FINE ;). Also, having one more thing checked off my to-do list is a good feeling as well.
Do we get there all in one day? Not likely if we are used to putting things off. Like anything, change takes time and putting one foot in front of the other. The feeling of accomplishment and the weight lifted by lessening the load is terrific though.
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
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